If only more men knew…
You know, if more men knew the “power” they had on a dance floor, the shortage of leaders would be nonexistent! As a follower, the Leader controls where you’re going, how you get there, how fast you get there, what you’re doing on you’re way there, and how you look getting there. If only more men knew…
On a dance floor, the leader can do no wrong. Men, please note that this applies only to the dance floor. I had a student realize recently, (insert Scottish accent here) “It’s not whether I did the right thing or not, it’s whether it was intentional,” and that is absolutely correct. The Follower’s job is to go wherever the Leader asks them to go. For the Leader, maybe you lead exactly what you wanted, or maybe your body took over and you ended up doing something completely different than what you had initially intended, it doesn’t matter! She has to go with you! As a Follower, it doesn’t matter if you “know the pattern” they are trying to dance, it’s whether you respond to the direction given. As the Leader of a dance relationship, you are the ultimate navigator, explorer, and captain. Your Follower is your ship. There to help you discover new worlds of movement and for you to steer into new horizons of dance floor. If only more men knew…
Typically when you watch a couple dance, you notice what the lady is doing, but do you know who is creating the movement? The Leader. Do you know who is deciding where they go next on the floor? The Leader. Do you know who is holding her in such a way that she is able to become the most desirable partner on the dance floor? The Leader. Most of us when we look at a painting, we notice the picture. The colors, the lines, the symbolism, but what if there was nothing holding the painting in place? Without the Frame, the picture would just be a rolled up piece of art. Crumbled up and tossed into a corner. Who is the Frame? The Leader. If only more men knew…
Gentlemen, it is time for you to take command of the floor . Any floor can be a dance floor. You are in charge on the dance floor. You call the shots on the dance floor. YOU can make every woman happy on the dance floor. Gentlemen, you can do no wrong on the dance floor. If only more men knew…